Dating through divorce
Now, I’m not saying to spare his feelings because he loved her once and blah blah blah…
You’re not going to talk badly about his ex because you don’t want your relationship with him to be based on how much you both hate her!
Don’t meet the kids right away; give the relationship with you and your guy time to bloom first.
Most divorcees come with miniature versions of themselves. Here are these little people with half your man’s DNA. His kids might look like him, but they’re still their own little people, and those people have feelings.
Did she make you want to throw something across the room at her oversized head? There are many women out there who find that the ex-wife isn’t always the cool and down-to-earth person they hoped she’d be.
No matter how you feel about his previous squeeze, you can’t let on.
Still, dating a guy who’s been divorced, just like dating a woman who’s been divorced, does come with a certain amount of baggage.
These men are often more mature and less likely to play head games with you (which is exactly why you to date him! However, they also come with, I’ll say it again, a little extra baggage. They’re not going to be the party boy you might be used to, and they’re not always likely to put up with women who need to know their every waking moment. Speaking of going easy on him, you also need to move slowly in this relationship.If you’re dating a man who has been divorced, chances are he’s had his heart ripped out by someone he held dear.That usually means he’s not going to be in any rush to have it happen again.My point is, you will be the enemy for a good long while, so enjoy NOT meeting the kids for as long as possible.Speaking of kids, it’s important not to try too hard when you meet his children.